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Two recent CNN stories —by women

antonia—actually support club industry

Author Antonia Crane writes first-person account, while CNN "This is Life" host Lisa Ling presents "What I learned in strip clubs"

The adult club industry is used to getting slammed in the media, especially when it comes to dancers, who are either (a) portrayed as victims of emotional or physical abuse who turn to dancing because they think they have no other options or (b) are sexual deviants or, even worse, whores. So it's refreshing, and very surprising, when a national news outlet presents two stories—both by women—which shatter these typical stereotypes.
The first story, titled "Inside the world of a feminist stripper," was penned by Antonia Crane, author of the book "Spent (A memoir)," who immediately puts to rest any typical labels usually put on entertainers who are explaining why they've chosen dancing as their money maker.

"I'm neither a happy hooker nor a sad stripper. I don't have a boyfriend in jail, any kids or a drug habit. I'm a writer, teacher and stripper," Crane writes in that CNN.com article. "If 10,000 hours clocked in as a stripper makes me an expert, then I'm at the top of my game."

Crane goes on to explain that, while she's never stopped pursuing her desire to be a teacher (she is currently an adjunct professor) and freelance writer (author of the aforementioned book), she has found it difficult to leave dancing behind.

"That I make more money stripping at 42 than I ever have teaching, writing, counseling homeless youth, waiting tables or tending bar is a problem of sexism and living in a sexist culture, not a problem of the [adult nightclub] industry," Crane writes, unabashedly. "I'm not going to tell you about the nights I was rejected and insulted, stolen from and threatened, nights I didn't make the money or the nights I wasted time with guys who did not pay off. Like many other jobs, those sketchy elements come with the territoryand I'm no victim."

Crane shatters even more stereotypes, this time about some of the customers who frequent clubs.

"Strip clubs exist because people are acutely lonesome. We walk around with these giant knots in our hearts, like a cramp that can't stretch out," Crane suggests. "What I've learned about humanity in my protracted tenure as a dancer is that we are a culture dying of loneliness in a frenzy to feel less so. Men wander into strip clubs not to cheat on their spouses (statistically, cheating happens in the mainstream workplace. I've met thousands of men who have affairs with their co-workers, secretaries and assistants), but to nurse a beer and pay a person to listen to them—a woman who does not require anything from them emotionally."

 
In Ling's report, she explains that she visited several clubs across the country in 2014 for the upcoming episode "Road Strip," a window into the world of traveling strippers. 
Ling interviewed a few club operators for the story, including David Boehm of Club Consultant Pro 2.0 (and a frequent Club Bulletin contributor and EXPO speaker).

"What happens when women themselves decide on their own to capitalize on their assets? During the course of shooting this episode, I met many different kinds of women, but one thing was present in all of them: ambition," Ling's CNN report goes on to say. "(Dancers) take advantage of the flexible schedule, like mothers who want to spend more time with their children. I don't know any other job that allows for this kind of flexibility in schedule. If I want to spend more time with my child, I can't just choose when I work. Many dancers can. They dance when they need money, but no one determines their hours but themselves."

Nothing in Ling's CNN.com report is derogatory of dancers or clubs, and she even goes on to say that she was impressed by the skill entertainers' showcased and seemed to enjoy the strip club environment.

"So how did I feel in strip clubs? Frankly, I was utterly mesmerized," Ling notes. "There is an art to seduction, and even if you've been married for decades or you're a devoted churchgoer, every one of us harbors the desire to be able to seduce or excite—even our long-term partner. The way these women's bodies move, the manner in which they play with their patrons: They are veritable masters of seduction, which is something that seems to have unquestionable value. So, why shouldn't these women capitalize on it?"


For the rest of Antonia Crane's story, click here:
http://www.cnn.com/2014/10/29/living/antonia-crane-stripper-essay/

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